Something that struck me as
interesting in this week’s readings was Pearson’s allusion to Claude Levi-Strauss’s
description of the relationships between the living and dead. Strauss argued that “the wide variation of power
relationships between living and dead [fall] somewhere between two poles,
epitomized by stories of the 'grateful corpse' and the 'enterprising knight.' These two metaphors represent two worlds in
which one is shared with the dead, and in the other the dead play little part
as long as they are respected. This
interpretation of relationship to the dead set me thinking. What does our society represent? Perhaps more
importantly, what do I believe? It seems
that today our society may have become so secular that even the latter interpretation
is redundant. However, the more
introspection I did on the topic, the more I came to realize this is not so cut
and dry. All around us are monuments to
the dead. People still feel that no ill
will should be said of the recently deceased.
This is probably not the best example, but when a famous figure or
celebrity passes away, it is frowned upon to joke on the subject. Is this because we believe the dead should be
respected? Does this respect come out of a fear of retribution? Probably not. What I find interesting though, is that it is
done out of a sense of avoiding harm to the recently deceased. It is almost as if they can still be present
and have feelings in the living and tangible world.
Personally,
I can relate to the second interpretation of Strauss’s. Although, I would argue that I respect the memories
of those close to me, not because I fear retribution, but because I feel that
allows them to continue partially in my life.
If I recall the lessons from my grandfather, and I imagine him there
telling me how to live and what to do, in a way his memory is contributing to
my world today…